Loving

…it is not as clear as it seems

I should have known better…

As a communication instructor and consultant, I understand how perception and inference can shape our understanding of reality. I teach this concept every day. To apply those concepts to this situation was harder. 

Looking back, I can see now that my imagination took what I knew of Andrew in the past, the few details he provided in his emails, and my inferences, when he wrote things like, “I want you, I want all of you, I do not want to share you,” and “I should have had you move in with me when worked together,” and “I will wake up next to you one day, ” and made assumptions that were consistent with what I needed our ‘thing’ to be.

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